Monday, December 21, 2009

Home for the Holidays

We have made it to Ohio and are Home for the Holidays. So far our visit has been perfect. We arrived Friday evening to Jaime and Jordan's house.

We enjoyed a dinner with our friends Ed, Nina, Aly, Kyle, Megs, Kevin, Jaime, Jordan and Zoey who are living in Columbus. Most of which we had not seen in four years!! Everyone looked amazing and seemed to be doing so well. What fun it was to catch up with everyone. Congrats to Ed and Megs on both your engagements! So happy you both have found someone to spend your lives with :)

Saturday morning Jaime made a yummy breakfast for us and we got to open Christmas gifts from each other and even Grayson got gifts! After the morning exciting we headed to Wooster to dad's house where in addition to Dad and Lynda we got to visit with Mom, Iz and Emily who were all busy getting ready for the baby shower on Sunday. How exciting it was to be home!

Sunday, December 13, 2009

28 Week Update

Sorry for the late post. Friday was our 28 week check up. Grayson is doing great. He is in the 64% growth rate and they moved my projected due date up 4 days. I have a 3 hour glucose test tomorrow (Monday) and will get the results later in the week. We got new pictures of Grayson at this appointment but they are not nearly as clear as the last. He was being a bit playful and sucking on his hand and playing with his feet so it made picture taking very difficult. I will post the pics to flicker once get them loaded to the computer.

Sorry for the short update but I'm headed to bed. Brian and I spent the day and I mean WHOLE day running errands and Christmas shopping. We leave for Ohio in 5 days and have what feels like 2.3 million things to get done between now and then. I'm so excited to see all of you over the holidays and for those of you who we will not see have a VERY Merry Christmas and an amazing New Year!

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Abby Update-26 weeks

So for all of you who are asking about me, well the "mommy" part of me, here is a little update.

I can NOT believe I am 26 weeks pregnant. That's like 6 1/2 months! It really does seem like yesterday when we were adjusting to the news of being pregnant, suppressing our fears and adjusting to a progesterone and lovenox medicine schedule. Things have certainly worked out well for us and we can not be more happy or feel more blessed!

I must say for the most part I am LOVIN the 2nd trimester. I no longer feel like I want to ick all the time, I actually like food again and I can stay up past 6pm. I think a some point in the first trimester I quite possibly resembled a zombie from "The Night of the Living Dead".

I am convinced that no matter how many books and websites you read, or how many stories you hear from your friends and family, NO ONE can prepare you for the things you experience during pregnancy. I have found all the, lets call them "symptoms", of pregnancy to be quite text book, however, the way these "symptoms" make you feel is far beyond anything you will read in a text book. For example, you know you stomach is going to grow rounder and bigger with each month but one can ever really grasp just how round and big your stomach gets in such a short period of time. I kid you not, I went to bed one night and I could see my feet...I know this because I had just got a pedicure. Then the next morning as I walked to the bathroom...NO FEET! Overnight I literally lost the pleasure of seeing my toes...the one body part I have always liked and can count on to look good...they were gone. Now the only time I see my feet is when walking and I catch quick glimpse of my toes when taking a long stride. Though I would not recommend walking and looking down trying to find your toes pregnant due to another little symptom they call balance. Fact of the matter is, you loose it.

Another symptom that I have encountered is what I will refer to as the "sam"...sorry dad but this one is for you. Now when sitting down, getting up, or simply changing positions I make uncontrollable grunting and sighing noises as I feel the need to express my difficulty in my movement. I swear it is a reflex and at times I don't even realize I have just grunted so loud Brian quickly turns and asks "do you need help?". Not going to lie, the help is often required and much appreciated!

Some more facts regarding my "symptoms":

* If I made money every time I used the bathroom, I'd be rich!

* When pregnant a "bathroom finder chip" is automatically installed in your brain. I can now spot a bathroom with in seconds of entering any building.

* I have learned what HEARTBURN is and invested in the stock of TUMS

* Maternity cloths are so comfortable you could wear them to bed

* Every pregnant woman should be issued a "picker upper" in the second trimester (you know the little stick thing with a trigger at the top) so when you drop something on the floor you can one-see it, two-reach it with out trouble, and three-are not be faced with the conflict of just leaving the item there until someone more bendable comes along and can help

* The "pregnancy card" was invented for a reason...when in need have no guilt in using it. i.e. we were at dinner the other night with friends, the wait was 45 minutes to an hour. After a bit of a wait, Brian did is daddy duty and went to the hostess stand and asked "can someone get a glass of water for my "pregnant" wife? Needless to say, I had my water but all the poor men at the bar were still waiting on their beers.

* "Pregnancy Brain" is no joke! I have left a friend at work, forgot to pick up a friend for work, put things that go in the fridge in the pantry and vice-versa and the list goes on

* Life starts to become about comfort and simplicity, not about image and cramming as much into a day as possible

* Hormones, Hot Flashes, happy moments that should make you smile make you cry, sad moments make you cry, indifferent moments make you cry. Then there is the RAGING hormones, these are the hormones that really piss you off...and for no good reason.

Most of all, my favorite "symptom" is this little guy that is growing inside of me! We are learning so much about him and he's not even here yet. My favorite part of my day is when Brian and I can sit on the couch together and rest our hands on my tummy and feel him moving. Lately we not only get to feel him but get to watch him kick his little hands and feet so hard he makes my tummy move. A bit alien like but so cool. I can not wait to meet him and for him to meet all of you! The holidays will fly by and before we know it February will be here and the clock will start ticking!

As promised I will post a "belly" picture soon so stay tuned!

Grayson Update-26 weeks

This morning I had my 26 week regular follow up doctor appointment. I saw Dr. Kil only, no specialist this appointment. Everything was routine...

Urine Test-check
Weight-check
Blood Pressure-check
Baby Heartbeat-check
Tummy measurement-check
Prescription refill-check

Dr. Kil said Grayson is growing perfectly of course he said this as he whipped out a miniature tape measure and measured my stomach...I'm glad to see someone is happy with my ever growing stomach. We listened to Grayson's heartbeat, it was 144. It was a bit of a challenge at first as they attempted to get his heartbeat he (as he has always done) decided to move around and make it a bit difficult for the doctor. At one point the nurse was close and got just a beat or two when Grayson decided he'd take control and litter ally kicked the heart beat "wand". I don't know what they call that thing they rub all over your stomach with the gel and stuff..a monitor? Anyway, he made the nurse jump when he kicked, I think it took her a little by surprise. It surly made us both laugh! Dr. Kil then scheduled me for my next appointment and my glucose test and that was the end of the appointment. Our next appointments are on December 11 in the morning, the first one is with the specialist (new sonogram pics) and then after seeing him we'll see Dr. Kil for my glucose test results. Then it is my understanding we will be back to seeing the doctor every 2 weeks instead of 4!

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Calling all voters

So the gender vote is over and those who voted boy took the win. Next on the list seems to be the date and time Grayson will make his appearance. We put up two polls, one for the week you think Grasyon will decide to arrive ranging from mid February to mid March. The second poll is for the time of day AM or PM.

Let the Voting begin!

Baby Furniture


Who knew baby furniture could be so hard to find! Ok, maybe it is just me but I found it nearly impossible to find baby furniture that we liked, was the right price and the right color. But in the end after 4+ mo. of looking we finally settled on Grayson's furniture. We traveled all the way to Richmond to USA Baby. What a great store they have and great customer service! We went back in forth between our wants and needs and this is what we ended up with.

4+ Months of Shopping
8 Stores
What seemed like 3530975309457349075 hours of deliberation

Finding Grayson's bedroom set....PRICELESS!



Saturday, November 21, 2009

What is in a name?

For those of you who have asked, Brian picked the name Grayson. It has always been a joke of ours that if we have twins Brian would get to pick the name. I agreed to this (only because I was so convinced this would not happen). He being the ultimate Ohio State Buckeye fan decided he would name the twins Scarlet and Grayson, with a tribute to the Buckeye colors Scarlet and Gray. Thankfully, no twins..don't get me wrong, a blessing it would have been, but I think I will enjoy maintaining my sanity with just one. So in the end, I had still fallen in love with the name Grayson so it stuck. Henry, is my grandfathers name on my mother's side. I knew I wanted our son to have a name of one of my grandfathers, so it was just debating between the two, but I picked Henry because it fit best with Grayson and Grandpa Hornak's name had already been used when naming my father. No one that I know of shares Grandpa Drazba's name. However, should we have more then one child and it be a boy again, I hope to be able to tie in my grandfathers name on my dad's side.

Here he is...

GRAYSON HENRY RAPP
21 weeks and 2 days

October Baby Update

Our last regularly scheduled Baby doctor appointment was October 23rd. We had two appointments scheduled for that day, but only made it to the first due to the how long the first appointment took. We saw the specialist Dr. Issada. The appointment was scheduled to find out if we were having a boy or girl and to check in on the baby.

We showed up a few minutes late but were seen right away. (There is never a wait at Dr. Issada's office..so love him for that). We were late because we stopped by McDonalds on the way the appointment to get me a few bottles of water as I was told by a few friends you have to consume a great amount of water for the appointment so they can see the baby well. The more water the better. I knew this was our one shot at finding out if "it" was going to be a boy or girl and did not want to have to reschedule..so I drank, and drank, and drank and drank....and by time we made it to the appointment I thought I was going to ink if I took another step!

Back to the room we went. It was only moments before they had the slimy gel all over my tummy and there the baby was on the monitor. Right away the nurse asked if we wanted to know the sex of the baby. We said "yes" and she replied, "that's good..I think I have a good idea as to what it will be". Brian and I looked at the monitor and then at each other, not sure what he was thinking but after seeing the baby on the monitor I INSTANTLY knew what the nurse was referring to. Lets just say the "apple does not fall far from the tree"...the baby's little hand was down between its legs. The nurse had to shake the ultrasound wand on my tummy to get the baby to "let go" of it's parts so she could confirm her thoughts. For just a moment the baby moved its hand and there "it" was!

I say "it" only because I am still not sure what "it" is supposed to be called when referring to an infant. The 'p' word just seems so grown up and well, weird to me. I know it's the official word but I just can't get myself to say it. Perhaps too much information, but a bit funny, this has been an ongoing conversation of Brian and I. There are many options I have heard others say, pee pee, thingy, dingy, wee wee, privates, junk, man hood...get my point. One might think this is an irrelevant thought but at some point this child is going to be running around the house with out a diaper or goodness only knows the situation, I just know, at some point I will have to make the statement in a motherly tone, "Stop touching/playing with your...."

We had a name picked out well before this appointment, so as soon as we knew we were having a boy, "it" was instantly...Grayson Henry Rapp. What a feeling to finally be able to call him by name!

The BIG GAME

OHIO STATE
VS.
MICHIGAN



need I say more....
GO BUCKS!!!!!!

Confession of a Slacker

Thanks to the friendly reminder of my father in law..I have not updated the blog in over a month. Not to mention the other things I have put off for a month, like the laundry pile that is growing vs. shrinking, the to do list that is growing instead of shrinking...see the pattern. So I promised the parents I would get this thing updated and back on track, so here we go...

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

3 More Days!!

Only 3 more days and we get to find out if this little one inside of me will be a boy or a girl!!! Stay tuned. We will find out Friday morning around 8 am!
Talk to you all then :)

Monday, October 12, 2009

Countdown

So tomorrow will be the 10 day count down till our next doctor visit where we find out boy or girl!!! I can't tell if Brian and I were more anxious to get married or more anxious for this. The bets and guesses are flying here in VA...So far boys are winning but those who are voting for girls are cut throat!!! Don't forget to spread the word to vote, I can not wait to see what the poll says vs what the results will be.

Work has a poll going and the boys have taken the lead on that one.

Also, I'm taking any suggestions on "must have" items as we will be registering as soon as we find out next week what we are having. We have done some looking but I can not wait to hear everyones opinion on things I should be sure to have.

Stay tuned for belly photos...I promise to get them up soon only because if I don't people will not stop asking ;) However, I should enjoy as this is the only moment in my life where having a growing tummy is exciting LOL!

Friday, October 2, 2009

Scrap Pink

Scrappin for Breast Cancer tonight and all day tomorrow!!














I'm in the process of uploading all my scrapbook projects to my flickr site so be sure to stay tuned.

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Preschool

I'm watching CBS Sunday Morning. One of the segments is on preschools that are so difficult to get into that you have to register your child before they are even born. Further more, the cost is more then I make in two plus months...one of the statements made is that some parents feel that by having their child attend a private preschool it will dictate what high school and even college (i.e. Yale as they stated in the segment) their child will later attend.

Some public schools I understand are not ideal. Some parents perhaps see money as a non issue and their child's education as something they are willing to pay any price for.

I'm going to go out on a limb here and be very general (as I understand everyone is in a different situation), so feel free to comment.

Where have we lost the responsibility as a parent to teach our children ourselves. To share with our children it does not matter where you grew up, if you went to a preschool in a uniform or not. If your schooling was paid or by the state or your parents. If it was free or cost money.

Where ever is the message, if you want your child to learn, then teach them. Since when is it our responsibility to provide way too much money to place a child in school to have someone else do a job that not enough parents do in their own home. If money was not an object or even if I wanted to take my child to a private school maybe I will make that choice. What is available to the child is clearly greater then in a public school and that is a fact.

However, it seemed in the story, that the message of the importance for a parent to be involved in a child's education and take responsibility for teaching, supporting and helping your child grow was lost. It's your child, not the schools or anyone else. No amount of money or type of school is going to allow your child to end up at a school like Yale if your child does not have the desire or want. In the story the persons at the private school forgot to mention...there is no guarantee and furthermore, you are the parents we aren't. You can have many resources at your finger tips and it is how you choose to utilize them that makes a difference.

It's not just the few hours a day at preschool that is going to provide a child with enough knowledge to become the best person they are able... it's a life time of learning, the love and support of a parent, the constant healthy environment that you provide in your home.

As Forest would say, "that's all I have to say about that".

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

September Baby Update

Today was my September baby appointment. I'll be 17 weeks tomorrow for those of you who are counting. It was the most easy, basic, quick and stress free appointment to date! I saw the nurse first, she weighed me and then listened for the little one's heart beat. To date I have gained 4 lbs and per everyone around me it's right in the tummy. I won't complain. The baby's heart beat today was 143. Last visit was 161, so for all of you who are making an educated guess to the sex of the baby, you may want to consider the heart beat.

Dr. Kil came to visit me after the nurse. He checked me over and was very pleased with both baby and me. He is very happy with my weight and the baby's health. He answered a few questions I had for him regarding traveling, flying, flu shot, exercise, my injections, etc. And that was that, the appointment was over and I was on my way.

My next appointment with Dr. Isada (the specialist) and with Dr. Kil is on October 23, 2009. We get to find out if it will be a boy or girl so everyone stay tuned for the update and make sure you get your vote in!

Monday, September 21, 2009

Our New Ride

Here is our newest addition to the family..our new SUV! I'll try to make a long story short. Saturday, Brian and I went out with the goal to hit the farmers market, brunch and then shop for a new SUV (aka the baby mobile). We had done a lot of research online as to what we were looking for. Goal was to keep a low monthly payment, trade in Brian's car, and drive away with something safe, roomy, comfortable and left us wanting no more. I have paid off my car, so the SUV would become the family vehicle and my main vehicle to escort the little one when he/she arrives.

So we show up at the Kia dealership, test drive the mid size SUV and then we see "our' SUV. It's the 2009 Kia Borrego, fully loaded and way more then we were looking for to satisfy our needs. Like my last vehicle, it is pre-owned with a few miles on it. We sat there all day thinking, calling parents to make sure we hadn't lost our minds and finally decided we would make the deal and drive off the lot with our new SUV.

Isn't it pretty!! It has just a few things I'm in love with aside from being spacious, pretty, safe for baby and a Kick A$$ soccer mom vehicle (as those at work like to point out)...it has power everything, built in GPS, satellite radio, blue tooth, duel air controls, seat warmers for your tushy to stay warm, controls on the steering wheel for everything, 3 rows of seats-all which fold down to make room for baby gear, groceries, dog and whatever else we need to load up. It has cruise control (luxury for our trips to Ohio) and it has settings so that when I drive it's set for me, and you a push a button for driver 2 and it's set for Brian!!! Leather seats, sun roof, and airbags that are not only in front but run the full length of the vehicle. It has buttons that you push to turn on lights in your house so you don't have to walk in the dark...no I'm not kidding...(I thought the sales guy was making that one up) but it's really true!

It's everything we wanted and more. Brian is now driving my car since his commute is longer. On his days off I will leave the SUV at home and drivethe car to save on gas/miles etc. I have put more pics up on flickr for you all to see the inside and other views of the vehicle.

Tomorrow is the nest Dr. appointment for the little one so stay tuned for the update.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Congrats!

Just a quick note to say CONGRATULATIONS to Neil and Heather who just found out today they are expecting a a baby GIRL!

It's time to start the countdown folks, in 1 month Brian and I will get our answer to the big question...Boy or Girl!? Make sure you are all placing your VOTEs!

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Facebook-it's about time!

I finally did it...I finally got a Facebook account. I know, look out world, here I come. Tonight was GN (girls night) and after being harassed for way too long I finally said I would go right home and sign up.

So far I have 5 friends. Go ahead, laugh, I did. I sent some requests to close friends and family members, just waiting to be accepted.

I can't help but thinking, "What have I gotten myself into now"? But here goes nothing! So, if you have a Facebook account look me up and say Hi!

Monday, September 14, 2009

Monday Blues

Happy Monday everyone!
I don't know about you, but my day was long! Did anyone else have speak to EVERY Grumpy person available today...Calling all Grumpiness, please dial 1-800 be a grouch today. I think I'm going to start a movement against the Monday Blues. It's a shame in my customer service driven job that I could not share my real feelings with the lovely people I spent the day talking to, or better yet, just simply asked, "did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed to day"?

I read an article the other day that mentioned a few things in life that should be implemented/created. One was an "avoid the ghetto" option for Google maps. Sorry, I had to go there but it made me laugh. I think everyone has driven down at least a street or two in their life and sneakily reached over to the door and pressed the lock button. I can promise you I have done this on multiple occasions getting lost in D.C. and a few times I think I hit the button more then once just to make sure the car was extra locked!

Back on topic, another statement on the article I read, said that someone should invent "sarcasm font". I mean what's taking so long. This would be the best new creation in Microsoft Word since the program was invented. I go back to my earlier statements about my day...75% of that paragraph would have been typed in BOLD SARCASM FONT! There is clearly a need for this invention.

I really do hope all of you had a good Monday and hope you all have a great rest of the week.

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Landscaping






Back in April we had Mom, Joe, Dad and Lynda, all down to help us landscape our new home. The parents arrived in town Friday night and immediately started to work. Mom mowed, dad, Brian and Joe went to get the rototiller and honestly I can't remember what Lynda and I did (but i promise we weren't just sitting there). By Friday night we had mowed the lawn and buzz cut the areas that were going to become flower beds. We ate dinner and planned out Saturday. Bright and early the men started tillin and we ladies went to the garden center to pick out flowers. I must say, aside from spending some $ it was a blast to pick out things to put in the yard. Mom, Dad and Lynda were kind enough to split some of their plants back in Ohio. Mom and Dad both brought Hotas, Daisies, Lilies, a Mum, Ferns and a few other plants I can not remember the names of. While at the garden center we picked out a small tree for in front of the dinning room window (a weeping cherry), a rose bush, box woods, a baby lilac bush, and a few other plants.

By time the ladies arrived home, the men had dug out the beds and were ready to start the planting. It went so fast and everyone chipped in, by evening the plants were in, watered and the beds were filled with mulch. What a busy two days!

The yard looks amazing, we put in three big beds and a few beds around the trees in front. All the plantings have taken well to the soil, even the ones transplanted from Ohio.

A ENORMOUS thank you to Dad, Lynda, Mom and Joe for helping us with the landscaping (not to sound like I just accepted a Grammy) but it would not have been possible with out all of you!!!!

Be sure to check out the photos of the landscaping and the new house on my flickr link

August baby update

August was a long month because unlike June and July where we were had appointments often, we had only one set of appointments in August. Our appointment with the specialist was first. We saw Dr. Issada on August 25th in the morning. This appointment was set up for our options for the Down Syndrome and Trisomy disorders and to check on Baby Rapp. The first step for this appointment was the ultra sound. It had been quite sometime since our last and we knew the baby was to have changed a lot and boy were we right. Right away we got to see little baby, that was no longer a bean! During the ultrasound we got to see him/her moving around, waving, kicking, doing and doing somersaults. We could she his/her little arms/legs, hands/feet. He/she had a little head, tummy, bum, little beginnings of ears, eyes, nose and mouth. He/she was very active and a bit hard to get clear pictures of, so unfortunately there are no pics of the little one for this visit. we of course could see him/her clear as day, however all the pictures taken by the tech were just not very clear. O, and he/she was no longer standing on its head this time and laying down comfortably in its little humble abode.

After the ultrasound Dr. Issada came in to look at the images and check me over, he then performed a bit more of the ultrasound himself in an effort to measure the baby's neck. The reason he did this was to look for signs of the Trisomy disorders and Down Syndrome. Brian and I were then left alone to decide if we wanted to have the test ran to see if there is a chance the little one may have Down Syndrome or any of the other Trisomy disorders. It did not take Brian and I long to make our decision. We of course understand that many may disagree but I'll share my opinion because I know some may want to know what we decided and perhaps why. We elected to not test for Down Syndrome and Trisomy disorders. The baby's neck had a good measurement so that it always (per the doc) the first "sign". Knowing by all statistics so far that the baby seems in good health, we truly believe that what will be will be. Whether or not the baby may have Down Syndrome or Trisomy disorders is not something we as it's parents have any control over. So no matter who you believed in, God or another higher being then ourselves, or true belief is that it's in the Lords hands. There is no treatment for prenatal care for the Trisomy disorders or Down Syndrome, so even if something was wrong and our child did need to lead a life with a disorder, there is nothing we can do until after the baby is born. Furthermore, the tests that they run to confirm if the baby has Down Syndrome or a Trisomy disorder has a high rate of false positives. If the test comes back positive there is further testing to be done, either an amniocentesis or chronic villi sampling (CVS). Both are invasive procedures and neither are ones that I would do unless forced to by the doctor. So with the thoughts that our baby's life and health at this stage are in the Lord's hands, the fact that the test has a high rate of false positives and even if we decided to do the test, I would not do any of the follow up testing, we determined it was not something we wanted to do. We have prepared ourselves as much as one can for all the what if's and determined we are ready for anything and of course will love our child and support our child no matter how our baby arrives.

Later in the day we were to meet with Dr. Kil. He happened to not be in the office so I got to meet with another Dr. in his office Dr. Stadulis, I will be honest, I was not happy that I was not seeing Dr. Kil and had to see another Dr. Of course this was fueled by not being seen until almost 4pm when my appointment was at 2:30 and never being informed that Dr. Kil was not in and that the office was running more then behind. Thankfully Dr. Stadulis was nice and the receptionist and nurses lack of communication to the patients was not her fault (can you tell I'm still a bit 'issed). Dr. Issada checked me over, checked the baby's heart beat and refilled my prescriptions for me. Dr. Issada was to call over and speak with Dr. Kil so they could correlate my treatment plan and make any changes if they so felt it was necessary. Since Dr. Kil was not in, Dr. Stadulis dismissed me from my appointment and advised that she would contact Dr. Issada to discuss my current treatment plan.

Dr. Stadulis contacted me that evening at home and advised that she had spoke with Dr. Issada. The decision made was that the Progesterone was no longer needed after September 7th which was the end of my 13th week of pregnancy, beginning of the 14th week, but that I would be on the Lovenox injections for the life of the pregnancy until shortly before I delivery. She advised at that point, the current plan is to switch me to Heparin and plan to induce me. My next appointment was scheduled with Dr. Kil for September 22nd, and my next appointment with Dr. Issada has been scheduled for October 23rd.

I have no idea what will take place at my next appointments aside from the basic check ups, I'm sure a glucose test will be done eventually to see if I will have prenatal diabetes and on October 14th, I'll be 20 weeks so at that point we may be able to schedule a separate appointment to check out Baby to see if we will be having a boy or girl!!! We will let you know when we are scheduled to find out the gender and of course be putting up poll for everyone to vote!

Now that I have wrote 3 or is it 4, enormously long entries about Baby Rapp you are all updated. The second trimester is off to a much better start. I have a bit more energy and have not be sick even a fraction of the time I had been in the first trimester, things seem to be getting a bit easier. I still have restrictions as far as not allowing my heart rate, blood pressure or body temperature elevate over a certain amount and still am considered high risk. I still have to take the injections but again, I'd do anything for our little one.


Saturday, September 12, 2009

July baby update

July 1st was our first Dr. visit. Brian came with me like the good man he is. We waited forever as usual and were finally called back to the doctors office. What a blessing because I knew I'd have to take another "test" and I had to go, got to go, got to go right now! I was doing the " I have to pee dance all they way out of the waiting room!"

I took the test and met Brian in the room while we waited for the Dr. We both knew all the tests previously taken still showed positive but the fear still rested in the back of our heads. By my calculations I would be 5 weeks exactly and this was always the time in which the pregnancy would come to an end and the pregnancy would fail. So, as excited as we were, we were also in a state of fear.

The moment Dr. Kil came into the room he congratulated both of us. Then it was down to business. Dr. Kil checked me over and instantly decided on a treatment plan...

I'll take a brief moment to fill those of you in who do not know, this is our 4th pregnancy. Prior to this child we had 3 early miscarriages. Dr. Kil is a highly recommended OB in the area. He along with the most normal of pregnancies, specializes in high risk pregnancies. I have attended his practice since we moved to VA. I was introduced to him by Laurie (a very close friend here in VA). He has delivered several of her 6 (yes, I said 6) children. He has great bedside manners and is incredibly thorough.

Back to the treatment plan. Due to the prior miscarriages, Dr. Kil instructed to us to come to him immediately if we ever received a positive test so that he could start me on Progesterone. One of the problems Dr. Kil suspected of my earlier pregnancies, was that he thought the baby was not implanting properly and Progesterone was something he could give me even if my body had enough. Backing up again, almost a year ago, Dr. Kil had ran many tests on me. The one to test Progesterone levels could not be performed with out a invasive procedure. Dr. Kil advised that whether the Progesterone levels were a problem or not, he could prescribe it to me. If my body had enough, it would not absorb any more. If it needed more, then my body would accept it.

WARNING...TMI!!!!


The Progesterone prescribed was a vaginal suppository, it had to be taken once in the morning and once at night. Therefore, Brian became doctor and our morning and evening medicine routine began. Brian usually would get up for work and leave around 4:30 am. He would prepare my morning dose for me and bring it to me in bed. I'd take my medicine, get another hour or two of sleep and then get up for the morning. Our nightly routine was very similar except he'd tuck me into bed and I'd take my medicine before barely falling asleep. The medicine required me to lay down for about 30 min so that it could absorb, and I'll leave it at that.

Along with the Progesterone, the doctor gave me about 12 different prenatal vitamins to try. I spent the next few weeks determining which I preferred. My next visit was scheduled for July 14th, 3 weeks later.

In the 3 weeks between doctors visits I narrowed my prenatal choice down to one. I picked it because it had (per all the information I had read) all the right levels of vitamins and nutrients and it did not make me any more sick then I already was on a regular basis.

July 14th came quickly. We were scheduled to have our first ultra sound and both were nervous and excited. We knew being only 7 weeks there was a possibility of not being able to see the baby or the heartbeat. After meeting with a few nurses who provided me information on the 1st trimester of pregnancy we were called back to the ultra sound room. I changed and met Brian and the nurse in the room. The nurse that was running the ultra sound was the same nurse who had seen us in the past. I wanted to scream. I had so many emotions running through me I just didn't know how to separate them all. As I layed on the table the nurse explained to me that due to only being 7 weeks there is a chance we will not see or hear the baby. She attempted to comfort us by explaining it would not mean something was wrong, it just may be too early.

The last time I laid on that same table, in the same room, it was during our most recent miscarriage. I remember hearing the same speech from the nurse last time. Except last time I remember her saying everything was going to be ok and maybe it was not a miscarriage, but I knew deep down inside, and my body knew. This time was different, nothing seemed wrong but I still had that fear, it was an chilling feeling that filled the room. Brian was right next to me holding my hand. Together, the three of us (me, Brian and the nurse) took a deep breath, it was just seconds but felt like hours and there our little spec was on the screen. Right away you could see the baby, it's little heart beating...instantly I began to cry. It was such a special moment I will never forget. So many times we had been in this same position, only to see a blank screen and no heart beat, only to have tears of sadness and this time, there was no sadness. It was special to not only have Brian there but the nurse who finally got to share in our joy instead of sorrow. We (Brian and I) dried our eyes while the nurse completed taking the ultra sounds and taking photos.

It was confirmed, there was a little "speck", it's heart beating so fast and strong. We could finally share the news with the Grandparents. At this point due to the past we decided to only tell our parents and my sister. We would tell others when further along. On the ultra sound pictures, the nurse typed 'Hi Grandma" and on a separate photo, "Hi Grandpa".

After the ultra sound we met with Dr. Kil. He was happy with all the stats. My health and the baby's health were good. Dr. Kil (again due to the past) decided it was time that he put me on Lovenox. This is a blood thinner. He prescribed the blood thinner to insure the baby would receive adequate blood supply. Again, I'll back up for a moment. Prior testing was done on both Brian and myself. It was determined that on one of my chromosomes I carried a clotting disorder. Essentially, I tested negative because the disorder is only on one of my chromosomes not both. Dr. Kil felt it to be a risk enough that we should not take a chance and treat for the disorder.

For this reason, Dr. Kil has prescribed me with Lovenox one time a day. This is an injection that I have to give my self in my tummy. I have to alternate sides after each injection. Now, for those of you who know me, I would assume you would have your jaw laying on your keyboard in shock. I FREAKING HATE NEEDLES!!! Nothing like having one of your biggest fears stare you in the face. I quickly realized my first lesson of motherhood. It is the most simple lesson that you will do anything for the health of your child. So our medicine routine changed a bit. In the morning just the Progesterone and at night, Progesterone, prenatal vitamin and injection.

Our next visit was July 28th. This visit was our Perinatologist, Dr. Issada. Dr. Kil referred us to him due to my "high risk" status. I met with Dr. Issada's nurses. What an amazing office. The nurses discussed being high risks and my restrictions. They then took Brian and I back for our ultra sound. The specialist is so great because we get ultra sounds on really high tech machines. This time we go to see our little bean, the bean was standing on its head (we are hoping this is not an indication of how rambunctious our child will be). Dr. Issada then came in and reviewed all the information gathered on me and the baby. Everything looked good to him and he agreed with Dr. Kil's treatment plan.

The next day, July 29th, we met with Dr. Kil. He reviewed Dr. Issada's notes and checked me and the baby over and sent me on my way. Our next visit with Dr. Kil and Dr. Issada was scheduled for August 25th after entering the 2nd trimester.

Overall, the first trimester went smoothly. I always said I would not complain because having a little one is something Brian and I always wanted. I will however say, it has gone smooth in that both baby and I are in good health, but I will not lie, it has not been the slightest amount of fun. For the whole first trimester and then some, I had all day sickness, not just morning sickness. Nothing tasted, smelled or looked good. I ate very small, random meals. Anything I could eat, I ate in attempts to keep my tummy settled and food down and in my tummy. Brian and I were able to get in quite a routine as far as my meds are concerned. I have scanned in the photos of our first two ultra sounds. The photos are hard to see and I don't expect anyone to be able to figure them out. The second ultra sound photos you can make out the beans head, torso and bum, there is a black patch over it's face...of course this is only on the photos they picked to print for us. Mom says the baby is in the witness protection program. Mom has also nicknamed the baby "sloopy" and sings the "hang on sloppy song". It's her little nickname. Others call Baby Rapp, speck, bean, and some are picking their gender choice.

June baby update

I promised to get the blog updated in regards to Baby Rapp so here is update from June - July. If you scroll down in the blog to Tuesday June 30th you'll see where we took a trip to Ohio for my cousin Emily's wedding. It was a great trip home. I wrote about our drive home being "smooth". A little detail I left out was the reason why. After we left Grandma Hornak's, I decided to drive the first leg of the trip home. We made it just out of town when I decided I was just too tired and wanted Brian to drive. I was asleep with in minutes and didn't wake up until we were nearly home. I've always been a bit of a car sleeper but to sleep all that way after getting a goods night rest seemed a bit odd. After waking up and thinking about it for just a moment I got to thinking...Brian and I went back in forth if I should take a test, if I wrote down the wrong dates, maybe I was just getting sick? So Monday morning before work I got up just a bit early to take "the test". I so badly wanted to surprise Brian but he knew exactly what I would do when waking up and after taking multiple tests, there was no hiding the result.

Brian had moved from the bed to the living room where he was casually laying (as if he wasn't laying there waiting for the result). I showed him the test and asked "what do you think". Who says that?! I knew what it said, I knew what all the tests I took said. Maybe I just needed someone else to tell me what it said? Brian's response I will never forget, "well, it looks like you are definitely, for sure pregnant."

That was it...I was pregnant again. Brian and I tried to hide our excitement and tried not to think about it (IMPOSSIBLE!!). On my lunch break that day I left the office to call the Dr. Kil's office. My first appointment was scheduled for July 1, 2009 3pm.

Go Bucks!




Buckeyes vs. USC 8pm. Need I say more. Gooooooo Bucks!!!!!!!!

Sunday, September 6, 2009

The Cat is Out of the Bag....WE ARE EXPECTING!!!

Ok, so I know the last post was in early July and I know you all had such high hopes I would actually catch on to this blogging business and be able to keep regular updates and photos etc. Well the bottom line is this....WE ARE PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!

Ok one more time just in case you didn't get it the first time....


WE ARE GOING TO HAVE A BABY...WOOOOHOOOOOO

For 4 Month's I've found it nearly impossible to blog because not writing about the big news is very limiting. Not that there are not other things to talk about, but I must say, the majority of our news has surrounded around baby updates and doctor visits. For those of you who found out very early, thanks for waiting to chat about it until everyone was on board. It seems all immediate family is now informed so spread the news as you wish.

I have a lot of catching up to do and quite possible way to much information to share. I figured I would start month by month until the blog is updated. If I miss anything I'm sorry, but feel free to make any blog requests so I can make sure everyone is happily reading!

Catching up!

Finally it's time to catch up. Brian and I have had a lot keeping us busy and now it's finally time to get everyone up to date. I have nothing to do today except house chores, clipping coupons and updating the blog and photos all day so keep checking in.

Friday, July 10, 2009

Funny Evian Commercial

I could not help but to share this commercial. It is so stinkin cute...I could not stop laughing! Enjoy!

Saturday, July 4, 2009

The 4th

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY EVERYONE!!!!!!! I love the 4th! Cook outs, fireworks, sparklers, etc. It truly is one of my favorite holidays.

Today is a busy day. We are headed over a friends house (Angela and Wes) for their 1 yr olds (Luke) birthday pool party and then over to the Rodick's for dinner and fireworks. There was a parade at the Lake this morning. The parade lined up on our road so we had a front seat view and we didn't even have to leave the house woo hoo!

I hope everyone has a very safe and fun 4th. Check in tomorrow for pictures of our holiday and don't forget to thank our troops for serving this amazing country!

Thursday, July 2, 2009

It's a Red Box night

Finally the work week is over. Why is it that the "short weeks" always seem to last twice as long as a regular 5 day work weeks. Ugh! At least it's over. Brian and I rented two Red Box movies ("P.S I Love You" and "The Code") for tonight. We are ready to curl upon the couch with Gunner and just RELAX! The boys have started with out me so if I am to find a place on the couch for myself I better hurry up...

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Ohio

We are back from our trip home to Ohio. What a blast. We left Virginia Thursday night about 8:45 pm and arrived at dad's in Wooster about 4:30 am. After sleeping in on Friday we went shopping for Brian to get a suit for Emily's wedding. After returning home we were graced with the presence of the Longbrake side of the family. We visited with Brad, Sue, Hunter, Anna Bridget, Jess, Samantha and Tristan. What a treat to see everyone! The kids are all growing so fast. Lynda cooked us dinner on the grill that was so tasty (thanks Lynda). Dad took us on a "tour" of his garden, AMAZING, everything is blooming like crazy. He had zucchini, cauliflower, broccoli, tomatoes, onions, cuccumbers and more. We were lucky enough to have some cauiflower with our dinner. It was so fresh and sweet, I ate it with out veggie dip and that says something! Way to go dad.

Friday night we had some time left before heading to bed so we drove out to visit my Stepdad Frank. We had a very fun, quick visit. We got to see all the new toys and take a tour of the house. He even let us play with the pain gun for bit! Beginners luck I hit the target on the first try. Needless to say after our visit Brian's wish list sure has grown.

Saturday morning Dad and Lynda took Brian and I to breakfast, yum! After a good breakfast we headed up North to Orwell for the big event. Emily's wedding. We arrived at Grandma and Papa's just before noon. We visited for a bit and then mom and I headed off to the chruch to get things ready. Brian stayed behind with the boys. The wedding was at 3:00. It was beatiful, but nothing was more beatiful then the bride. Emily looked AMAZING! The ceremony went well, everyone did a great job and I made it through the reading I had (phew) with out getting tounge tied or falling down the stairs. Following the cerermony and family photos the reception started at 6pm and we partied until they kicked us out.

Sadly on Sunday morning Brian and I had to leave for home. After breakfast and saying our goodbyes we left Orwell, but before hitting the turnpike,we made one last stop to visit with Grandma Hornak. She treated us to lunch at a local place she likes to visit. We spent a few hours talking and looking at old photos. She is well and it was a pleasure to visit with her.

We arrived back in VA after 10 pm on Sunday. The trip back was a smooth as the trip in. It was so good to get to visit with the family. We surely don't get to see enough of them and miss them all so much.

I have put the pictures from Em's wedding on our flickr site as well as some other pics from the trip home, so enjoy.

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Trip to Ohio

Brian and I are getting ready to leave to OHIO...woohooo home! We can not wait to breath the Scarlet and Grey air...Can I get a OH--IO!!!

We are headed home for my cousin Emily's wedding on Saturday. We plan on leaving right after work on Thursday night and driving straight to Ohio. With enough good road tunes and coffee we hope the drive will be fast and uneventful. While we are home we hope to spend Friday visiting family, Saturday at the wedding and then a quick visit with one of my closest friends and her husband. Our plans are not set in stone, but we hope to visit as many people that we can. I can not wait, we only have 3 days :( and I just know the time will fly by.

I will be sure to share more about our visit home once we return so stay tuned...

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Vacation

Unfortunately vacation has ended. Brian and I spent about 10 days at Murrells Inlet, just south of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. We had an amazing trip and I will be sure to write about it later. At the moment I am still unpacking, picking up the house and most of all getting back into the swing of things at work. Yuck, work!

So to 'rapp' things up, keep checking in as I hope to be sharing our vacation memories with you.

Update

I know it's about time, but Brian and I have finally settled on a site that we can share our photos with you. If you look at the top right of my blog you will see a link that says Abby@Flickr. When you click on the link it will take you to our photos. I'm in the process of sorting through all our photos and organizing them for you to view. So keep checking in each day as there will be more and more updates.

Monday, June 1, 2009

BOBTAILS

So here's the story. Brian and I just went to take the movies we rented back to Bloom. After parking the car out front, Brian looked into the front flower bed and said "Hey, look! Bobtails!" Below are two pictures of this plant in the front flower that Brian has described as this plant called "Bobtails"



So my question is what the hell are bobtails?

Redbox


Brian and I have found a new addiction "REDBOX"!





I'm sure I'm also one of the last on this bandwagon too but we are so totally excited! For those of you who are not familiar "Redbox" is this cool little machine they have at convenient stores like Bloom, Giant etc. where you can rent movies for 24 hours for only a $1.00. HELLO? I said a dollar! (This is where my parents are supposed to smile and think how happy they are to raise such a wise shopper). Last night we rented 3 movies:The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, The Da Vinci Code and Paul Blart Mall Cop







All were great! So everyone must join me and go visit this little RED machine that spits out little movies for only a $1!

Jumping on the Bandwagon

So I have finally decided to jump on the "blogging bandwagon". I wanted to find an easy way to reach out to all our family and friends. So please be patient while I try to figure out all these buttons, windows, settings and gadgets. Maybe if I succeed, by the end of the week I'll have pictures available, a post each day and perhaps a relatively fun site to view. So stay tuned...